Well, this chemical pregnancy really took the wind out of my sails. Found out on Monday that my beta was only 9 at 20 dpiui. I started bleeding that afternoon and that was that.
Tomorrow I'm going to a practitioner of Mayan Abdominal Massage and then on Tuesday I'm headed back to acupuncture. J even mentioned the possibility of me taking some extended time off from work. If this IUI doesn't work we'll be on a forced break because of the holidays - which should give us some time to not think about it and then to really work on coming up with a long term plan.